How to Run Away
If you meet the above requirements it is time to discern your motives. All things in life tend to be extremely personal and unique, and the decision to dramatically leave home is no different. Feel free to develop your own personal motive for yourself, but if you are having trouble getting started here are some possible motives you can use.
Escape from the bourgeoise
Perhaps the home you are running from is a large and luxurious house. Or better yet, it is a full flung mansion with 5 bathrooms and a bowling alley downstairs. But to you it is a prison of expectations and fancy notions that your socialist/starving artist mind is repulsed by. Your parents, who are fancy, wealthy people themselves, want you to one day become fancy and wealthy as well. To make matters worse, your sibling is fully involved in the idea of one day becoming just like your parents, which only makes things bad for you as you are constantly labeled as the failure of the family. You do not want to be a doctor or a lawyer or a plumber like everyone else. You want to dream and live in the bowels of poverty, because that is truly where life happens. You’ve likely just finished reading Les Misérables or The Communist Manifesto and have a new and revived outlook on life. Or maybe for years you’ve been throwing paint at large canvasses in your luxurious garage and feel like a fraud because every other artist is starving and you most certainly are not doing that. At the end of the day you are fed up with expectations but even more fed up with money and you will do anything to escape the frivolous and fake world of the wealthy. So you decide to run away.
This motive is perfect for people who come from a small or midsize town in which their creative and innovative ideas are too big and grand for the feeble minds of people who drive trucks despite never actually needing to haul anything and wear unstylish clothes that were ugly 10 years ago and are still ugly now. Before you decided to run away you likely spent a lot of time roaming the streets of your small hometown, pining over the ways you both hate and love it and dreaming up the lives you could be living if only you were somewhere else. This notion only thickens if you live in a midsize town that is just big enough to give you a taste of adventure, but still small enough to make you feel trapped. Regardless, you want adventure in the great wide somewhere and are willing to do anything to get it. One day, perhaps after a disappointing football game or a depressing prom dance in a poorly decorated gym, you decide enough is enough, and even if you don’t get anywhere, the act of trying to go somewhere is better than staying here.
This is where annoying, better-than-you siblings come into play. They’ve made your life hell. They’ve managed to take away every joy from your home and spirit by being nothing more than a nagging and vaguely malevolent presence. They have incited a rage so deep there is no solution other than dramatic escape. Or maybe the sibling is not the problem. Maybe you’ve had your first terrible heartbreak at the sophomore year homecoming. The love of your life dancing with someone else, and if you have to stay in this stupid town for one more stupid second you’re sure to explode. So you need to get out. Or maybe there’s no reason at all. Maybe you listen to too many of your Mom’s vinyl records, and spend too much time wishing you were born back then and getting angry that you were born right now, or you were unlucky enough to be born the middle child of a working class family and you’ve spent your whole life as an afterthought. Either way, you are very angry, or very dramatic, and trying to prove a point. You decide to run away to see who will chase you, or to see how far you can get before the guilt of overreacting inevitably pulls you back home.
If you’ve found motivation, the time is now!
Steps for the Night You Plan to Leave